Wednesday, December 9, 2020

(209) Allen Hunt: The Greatest Investment

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Dr. Allen Hunt was the main speaker at the 2015 Diocesan Men’s Day of Renewal.  He is a nationally known speaker and best-selling author. His books include: “Confessions of a Mega-Church Pastor: How I Discovered the Hidden Treasures of the Catholic Church; “Everybody Needs to Forgive Somebody; “Nine Words: A Bible Study to Help You Become the Best-Version-of-Yourself”; “Dreams for Your Grandchild: The Hidden Power of a Catholic Grandparent”.  Books may be ordered from www.dynamiccatholic.com.

          Allen stepped aside July 1, 2007, as Senior Pastor at Mount Pisgah, a congregation serving more than 15,000 persons each week through all of its ministries in Alpharetta, Georgia, outside Atlanta. While at Mount Pisgah, Allen helped to develop comprehensive ministries with children and students as well as a Christian School with over 1200 students; a Beacon of Hope pregnancy resource center; and the Summit Counseling Center.

On January 6, 2008, the Feast of the Epiphany, Allen converted to Catholicism. This transition represented the culmination of a 15 year journey in which God began leading Allen home to the Church. In many ways, this transition was effected by the prayers of a group of Dominican sisters at Monastery of Our Lady of Grace in North Guilford, Connecticut, who have been praying for Allen since he shared lectures with them during the season of Lent in 1992.

Prior to full-time ministry, Allen worked in management consulting with Kurt Salmon Associates, an international leader in the textile, apparel, and retail industries. Allen was educated at Mercer (B.B.A.) and Emory (M.Div.) Universities, before earning a Ph.D. in New Testament and Ancient Christian Origins from Yale University.

Allen and his wife, Anita, live in Atlanta. They have two grown daughters.

The Greatest investment

An interview of Dr. Allen Hunt by Jay Tramonte taken from

www.venturewithvirtue.com/066-allen-hunt/

 THE CALL…FROM MANAGEMENT

 CONSULTANT TO MEGA-CHURCH PASTOR

“I distinctly heard in the depth of my soul God speaking to me saying “Allen, when are you going to stop serving yourself and start serving Me?”

That was a particularly jarring moment for Allen because he really didn’t want to leave the business world.

At this point he knew what God wanted him to do…it was just a question of whether he was going to be obedient or disobedient.

“I enjoyed my work, but I was looking out far ahead 20, 30, 40 years ahead and thinking I don’t really want to stay on this train to where it goes.”

“I love to work.  And I realized I better be darned sure I was loving to work the way God wanted me to love to work.”

BRINGING FAITH INTO THE WORKPLACE

“Invest in other people as human beings made in the image of God.”

When we invest in the whole life of a person, our faith comes through in ways we don’t see.  Others around us notice not only how we treat people but invest in them beyond work.

GREATEST VOCATION

Allen’s greatest vocation is as a husband, father and grandfather.  He didn’t come to understand this overnight, but after many years.

“THE GREATEST PREDICTOR FOR YOUR CHILD’S SPIRITUAL FUTURE IS YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE AS A PARENT.”

Schools can help.  Churches can help.  Other people can help.  But the #1 predictor is the spiritual life of parents and the #2 predictor is the spiritual life of the grandparents.

Part of the American mindset is we outsource everything.  We hire someone to teach our children how to play baseball better, piano better and do better in Spanish.   We act like the point guard distributing the ball of our children’s life to all of the experts.  We think we can outsource the spiritual life of our children, but we can’t.

“One of the reasons we are seeing this large exodus of kids from the Catholic Church is because the parents don’t take their faith life seriously.”

“I experienced this in my own life and then I realized the #1 mission field is not my neighborhood, my workplace or someplace in Africa.  It is in my home because this is the place where I am most likely to have the greatest impact.”

“I don’t want to make the mistake of neglecting the primary mission field God has given me to go focus on ones that are secondary.”

WHY HABITS ARE SO IMPORTANT

You are what you do. 

“Sloth is one of the 7 deadly sins because it really does kill us.  If we don’t put in the effort and build the habits we don’t get the results.”

What is the outcome you want for your life?

Do you want to live what God would consider to be a good life?

Do you see your life as belonging to God?

What are the habits that will get you there?

Our lives change when our habits change. 

When you stop doing one thing, it allows you to say yes to something else. 

If you want to say a deep yes to something, you will probably need to give up several other things.

THE MOST IMPORTANT FAMILY HABITS

Children develop habits that we create in the family.  Once our children develop habits they become a natural part of the rhythm of their life.  The most important habits for any family to form are obvious.

1.   Pray together as a family.  The likelihood of children to have a prayer life is largely determined by whether the parent has a prayer life.  Individual prayer and prayer as a family are both important.  Family prayer can include prayer before meals, after you wake up, before you go to bed or before Mass.

 

2. Go to Mass together as a family.  It is important to also talk about Mass as a family before you go and after it is over.

 3. Serve together as a family.  This could be an annual family mission trip during the summer or a monthly service project at a soup kitchen or home building. 

Children need to see that these habits are important to the parent and the family does it together.  Most importantly these habits should create conversations between children and parents on a regular basis afterwards.

By building these habits into the rhythm of family life, big conversations flow naturally without it becoming a big deal.

SISTER DIANNE AND THE POWER OF HABITS

Every day at 2 pm Sister Dianne would walk to her desk in the community room and pickup the same book, Wellsprings of Worship by Corbon.  Then she would walk around the grounds of the convent reading, praying and reflecting.  When she was finished she returned the book to her desk and went about her day.

Eventually Sister Dianne developed Alzheimer’s and began to slip away mentally.  Towards the end she was no longer lucid and no longer recognized any of the other sisters.  However Sister Dianne still went to her desk at 2 pm every day, picked up the same book and walked around the grounds like she had always done.  Even though she could no longer comprehend what she was reading, she still practiced her habit of prayer by flipping through the pages as if they made sense.

This habit of prayer was so deeply engrained in Sister Dianne that it still kicked in even when her mind wasn’t at full capacity.  This habit was so strong she practiced it until the very end of her life.

IMPORTANCE OF VIRTUE

Virtue is the pathway to holiness.  Virtue is how you live in the details of your life each day.  Every day we make countless decisions.  Each decision is an opportunity to invite God in to our life and try to be the best version of ourselves.

It is through the little decisions of life that we cultivate our souls.  Once we are intentional about making good decisions on a regular basis, it can become a habit.  When it becomes a habit, it becomes easier to make the right decision because we don’t have to think about it.  It just happens.

Virtue is lived out not so much in the big decisions of life, but in the little everyday situations.

THE CENTERPIECE OF ALLEN’S SPIRITUAL LIFE

Allen reflects on this same verse from Galatians every day because it contains nine virtues that are part of a healthy soul.

“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and self control.”  – Galatians [5:22]-23

While Allen strives to grow in all nine of these virtues all of the time, he is currently working on one in particular – self-control.

Why?

His life is less structured now than 20 years ago when he had a regular daily rhythm as a pastor.  Since Allen travels a lot as a speaker it has become challenging in new ways to practice self-control.  It is a daily struggle to practice it with his diet, exercise, spiritual life and in his relationships.

How does Allen actually try to practice self-control?

ALLEN’S PRAYER LIFE

“I think I am taking prayer more seriously.  I am not sure I took it as seriously as I should have in my 20’s, 30’s and 40’s.”

Allen tries to practice self-control and discipline with his prayer life by making prayer the first thing he does every day.  It is a struggle to resist the temptation to take a shower, check email or even have a cup of coffee as soon as he wakes up.

“If I don’t do prayer first, I still do it, but it’s not as fruitful and it doesn’t spill into my whole day.”

He is also more intentional about what he reads and incorporates it into his prayer life. 

Finally Allen works with a spiritual coach to help hold him accountable to practicing self-control and staying on track with his prayer commitments.

THOUGHTS ON ACHIEVING REAL SUCCESS

Mathew 25 – Gospel about the Talents

God invests in each of us differently, but in the end we are all judged by what we have done with what He has invested in us.

“For me success is looking at my life…the money God has given me, the health God has given me, the gifts intellectually and physically God has given me and the relationships God has given me and saying to God here is the maximum return on investment for You God.”

Hopefully in the end, God will say “well done good and faithful servant.”

KEY TAKEAWAY

On Business…

“Don’t confuse effort with results.”

On Faith…

“Faith is a journey.  It is not a moment and it is not a destination.  It is in the journey of living with, for, and in God.”

“Faith has to take priority over everything else, otherwise I will wander off and loose my soul.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

·       Prayer: Finding the Heart’s True Home – by Richard Foster

·      *  Confessions of a Mega-Church Pastor – by Allen Hunt

  

APPENDIX

A Selection of Quotes From His Book

“Confessions of a Mega-Church Pastor:

 How I Discovered the Hidden Treasures of the Catholic Church”

(From www.goodreads.com)

 “When you suffer, you are being conformed to the image of Jesus. When you pray, you are being made holy in the image of Jesus. When you quietly serve a person in need, you are being shaped into the image of Jesus. When you generously give, your heart is being remade into the image of Jesus, our Lord and Savior.”

“It became obvious why Catholics had built such beautiful cathedrals and churches throughout the world. Not as gathering or meeting places for Christians. But as a home for Jesus Himself in the Blessed Sacrament. Cathedrals house Jesus. Christians merely come and visit Him. The cathedrals and churches architecturally prepare our souls for the beauty of the Eucharist.”

“Suffering often draws us closer to God. Instead of being a sign of God's punishment or distance, suffering can purify us, lead us into the heart of God, and transform our souls.”

“You and I are part of the colony of heaven. Right now, we may reside here on earth, but our passport indicates that our citizenship is in heaven. We are on the earth, but not of the earth.” 

* Hear Dr. Hunt’s talk at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyUmA6HgCbc&ab_channel=SteubenvilleConferences - The #1 Reason I Love Being Catholic - 2016 Defending the Faith Conference

* Allen Hunt’s radio broadcasts can be heard at https://tunein.com/radio/Allen-Hunt-Show-p52991/.

* Hear Hunt’s talk, “A Journey of Trust” at https://www.orlandodiocese.org/9-a-journey-of-trust-with-dr-allen-hunt/

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