Thursday, March 16, 2017

(130) Invitation to College Students to the Men's Conference

AMDG

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St. Joseph, model of a true man of God, pray for us and for the success of the Men's Conference.


Wheeling Jesuit University Campus Ministry (Up to Date 2016)
“Campus Ministry” <camp-min@wju.edu>,
“Jamey Brogan -  Director of Campus Ministry” <jbrogan@wju.edu>,
“Fr. Ignatius Sasmita SJ – Campus Minister” <ihssj@wju.edu>,
“D. Puddy Agans – Campus Minister” <dagans@wju.edu>,
“Margaret Erickson – Pastoral Associate” <merickson@wju.edu>,
“Elaine Teachout – Office Manager” <eteachout@wju.edu>,
“Fr. Jim Obrien” <jobrien@wju.edu>,
“Robert Troeger – Director Music Ministry” <rtroeger@wju.edu>,
“? Fr. Harry Geib” <hgeib@wju.edu>,

March 15, 2017

Dear Wheeling Jesuit University Campus Ministers:

            If the Men are in good spiritual shape, the family is renewed.  If the family is renewed, the parish is renewed and so is the diocese.  The men must be spiritual leaders in their families.  The men must step up and be the pillars of the parish.......not only the women.  The men must put Christ into the marketplace and in their jobs.  That's what we're trying to accomplish with the Steubenville Diocesan Men's Day of Renewal.  See the attached brochure, additional information, and registration form.          

            I am a member of the Steering Committee for organizing the Steubenville Diocesan Men's Day of Renewal.  Our parish, Sacred Heart Church in Point Pleasant WV, and Sacred Heart Church in Pomeroy, OH have been sister parishes for many years, one inviting the other to a parish function, going to daily Mass at the other parish when the home pastor is away, and especially with the priests helping each other out with Penance services, and occasionally a weekend Mass.  Furthermore, I taught Business at Wheeling Jesuit University in 1988-89.  Thus I have a special love for Wheeling Jesuit university.

            In that same spirit we thought that it would be great if a delegation of students, staff, and professors from Wheeling Jesuit University could attend our Diocesan Men’s Day of Renewal on March 18 at St. Stephen’s Church in Caldwell (9 am to 3:30 pm) off of Exit 25 on I-77 about 1½ hrs. away.  Students from Wheeling Jesuit University would be great witnesses and it would be a great experience for them.  If we can attract a good number of men, we will be able to provide more nationally known speakers in future years. 

            It is essential that the men take the spiritual lead in the family and in the parish.  Too often the women are the pillars of the parish.  According to Fr. Larry Richards, our 2013 speaker, the probability that the children will remain faithful to the Church in later life is about 40% if the mother takes the spiritual lead.  However, if the father does his job as spiritual leader, that probability of later faithfulness doubles to about 80%!!!!  According to Danny Abramowicz, the children love Mom, but tend to follow Dad. The great majority of your male students are the future fathers and husbands in the Church.
            To complement the Mass presided by Bishop Monforton and Penance Service the featured speaker is Capt. Guy Gruters (USAF).  After graduation from the Air Force Academy with a B.S. in Engineering Science, Capt. Gruters flew more than 400 combat missions in Vietnam and received over 30 combat medals and awards.  He was shot down twice and captured the second time in 1967.  After leaving the Air Force, he captained DC-9s and Boeing 727s for Eastern Airlines until retiring in 1991.  Later Capt. Gruters was an account rep. for IBM and President of PC Software Systems.
            In his morning talk Guy Gruters will reveal how his faith and trust in God carried him through the ordeal as a Prisoner of War in the notorious “Hanoi Hilton” and other camps for five years.  Since bitterness is self-destructing, he will share in the afternoon talk how he learned to show mercy and forgive his brutal captors who tortured him and deal with people in a business environment.  The participants will discover how they can apply the lessons learned by Capt. Gruters to their daily lives.  He is a 4th Degree member of the Knights of Columbus.  
            Drawing from his diverse experience and being a father of seven children, he will also touch on “Leadership and Teamwork in the Family, Church, and the Community”.  An excellent and dynamic speaker, Mr. Gruters gives talks all over the country and is the author of the book, “Locked Up With God”.
        Another alternative is to invite Capt. Guy Gruters to speak on campus.  If interested, I could easily put you in contact with him.
            This background puts Capt. Gruters in a position to speak on the theme of this year’s Diocese of Steubenville Men’s Conference, “Mercy and Forgiveness, Faith and Trust……..Means of Developing Strength  and Holiness in Difficult Times” and apply it to our daily lives.  That is through the power of faith rise up to be the spiritual leaders of their families, to do their part in renewing their parishes, be servant leaders in the community, and to make a difference for Christ by applying the social teachings of the Church to their professions.

The goal of the Men's Day of Renewal is to focus on the spiritual development of the men of our diocese. Having spiritually strong men of faith and character translates into more solid families, more dynamic parishes, and better communities. This is crucial to the Church, now and in the future. It is also critical for nurturing vocations.  It involves sacrificing most of a Saturday with some travel, but Lent is all about sacrifice and the quest for holiness.  That gives a pilgrimage flavor.  During the middle ages, pilgrims would travel for days by foot or horseback.

            The men will see how the participants are moved by the beauty and power of the faith.   The experience of seeing so many men enthusiastically participating and lifting up their voices in song is uplifting.  There will be a Holy Hour of Eucharistic Adoration and optional Lenten Confession.  In the past the men have returned spiritually refreshed, reinvigorated, and enthusiastic.   Registration will be taken at the door.

            There’s more information on the diocesan website, www.diosteub.org and the Conference Blog, “Becoming a True Man of God” at diosteubmen.blogspot.com which is also devoted to articles to keep men in spiritual shape after the Conference.  For a greater variety, go to “A Little Bit for God and His People” at paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com.  One may also contact paulrsebastian@yahoo.com or call 740-245-9404.

            It should be a great day of enjoyable fellowship and spiritual reinvigoration. But most of all, the organizers expect that through grace there will be a few more good spiritually strong men for the kingdom of God in the battle against secularism and other evils and problems that our troubled society must confront.......men --not spiritual weaklings and wimps-- who will put Christ into their professions.  Finally, the men will become more knowledgeable, firmer in their faith, and better prepared for a more joyful Easter, not to mention a greater closeness to God and eternity which life on earth is all about. 
           
            Often the enthusiasm generated at a men's conference is contagious and there could be a spillover onto campus since the students see fellow participants moved by the beauty and power of the faith.  Non-Catholics are also welcome.  This is all a part of the New Evangelization in this Year of Faith......to fire up the apathetic Catholic who doesn't do much beyond attending Sunday Mass, the minimalist; to touch the drifting Catholic and the fallen away through the publicity and inviting them to attend.  Your students and their youth could stand out and be most effective witnesses for the faith and it would be a great experience for them. 

            You could appoint a student committee to mobilize students and professors with one on one selling, organize a van pool, and register the men.  Filling out the registration form in the easily duplicated brochure in advance and giving it with payment to a representative would speed things up at the door.  If sufficient time, please send them to Roger Huck; %Men’s Day of Renewal, P.O. Box 54; Beverly, OH 45715.  That would help our planning. 

            A layman could briefly talk about the conference at the end of Mass.  This would be a great supplement to any promotion that you care to make in the bulletin, from the pulpit, etc.  I know that there are almost two weeks and only one week-end left before the Conference, which is not much time.  I'm sorry about not being earlier, but it is still very doable. 

            Please don't hesitate to call me at 740-245-9404 or e-mail me at paulrsebastian@yahoo.com if I can be of help.    Hopefully, students and professors will return on fire which would make your university parish more dynamic.  Thank you so much and God bless.

SUMMARY OF WHAT THE MEN'S CONFERENCE CAN DO FOR YOU.....BENEFITS

·         Get into good spiritual shape and avoid being a spiritual weakling, i.e., a spiritual wimp.
·         Have a great day of enjoyable fellowship and spiritual invigoration in the parish van and at the conference, resulting in deeper friendships and parish cohesion.
·         Develop ourselves as men of character and spiritual strength as we obtain the graces to conquer ourselves and cope with the problems that our troubled society and economy brings to us.
·         Be a more effective spiritual leader of your family as a better husband and father.
·         Prepare our hearts for the great feast of Easter and for eternity as we become closer to God..
·         Become knowledgeable about the faith and grow in Christian maturity.  We know so little about Church teaching.
·         Become a more effective soldier of Christ as you do your part in establishing the kingdom, winning the spiritual-culture war against secularism, and put Christ into your profession.
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St. Joseph, model of a true man of God, pray for us and for the success of the Men's Conference.


AS A SHORT ANNOUNCEMENT

Diocesan Men's Day of Renewal Saturday, March 18 from 9 am – 3:30 pm at St. Stephen’s Church in Caldwell off of Exit 25 of I-77.  The theme is “Mercy and Forgiveness, Faith and Trust……..Means of Developing Strength and Holiness in Difficult Times.  The main speaker is Capt. Guy Gruters.  Dynamic and captivating, this nationally known author and speaker will show how his faith carried him through over five years as a POW at the Hanoi Hilton in Vietnam and how he learned to show mercy by forgiving his captors who tortured him.  The home page of diosteub.org 

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